No one owes you anything. Stop being a whiny self centered brat. No one forced you to buy a Lightning and no one is forcing you to use the Tesla SC network.
I used the Lectron Vortex for a trip from between TN and TX .
I had read about the sticking Tesla plug in this adapter and spent a good 20 minutes the day before the trip inserting and removing a Tesla J1772 adapter over and over from it. The first several attempts to remove it were crazy...