Op have Ford do your alignment if the local shop can’t figure it out. You cannot use a normal F150 for alignment that’s a completely different suspension.
Eibach springs and shocks 3” for about $1,200s is the best kit currently and largest lift we have seen so far. There’s also a rough country 3” for $600.
Has there been any mods where you can put the navigation address in while driving or enable car play wireless while exceeding the 1 mph or whatever it is? Some of these safety features are annoying.