These are all good questions. I've emailed my dealer a couple times, but have never gotten word about what number in line I'm in. This process is frustrating.
Hey man I'm in the same boat as you. I, myself live in south Florida and have the Lightning reserved. And one of the main reasons I'm getting it is because if the ability to power the house.
-2016 Bmw M3 heavily modded about to be sold
-2005 Honda crv daily
-Wife's car 2018 Honda Odyssey elite
This will be my first American vehicle and pickup truck. Very excited