Similar situation as you.. got bumped too. however i did not get the dealer treatment you did. brought my current truck in for maintenance and saw they had a lightning in the showroom.
$30k ADM - ha ha ha.
The item description is a bit misleading. I don’t see a claim that the entire item is made in the USA - only the steel threads.
“Designed and Engineered in Germany for us, with 304 stainless steel threads made here in the U.S.A.”